富爸爸,穷爸爸(英文版)-第14部分

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I　run　into　this　young　couple　all　the　time。　Their　names　change；　but　their　financial　dilemma　is　the　same。　They　e　to　one　of　my　talks　to　hear　what　I　have　to　say。　They　ask　me；　〃Can　you　tell　us　how　to　make　more　money？〃　Their　spending　habits　have　caused　them　to　seek　more　ine。
They　don't　even　know　that　the　trouble　is　really　how　they　choose　to　spend　the　money　they　do　have；　and　that　is　the　real　cause　of　their　financial　struggle。　It　is　caused　by　financial　illiteracy　and　not　understanding　the　difference　between　an　asset　and　a　liability。
More　money　seldom　solves　someone's　money　problems。　　Intelligence　solves　problems；　There　is　a　saying　a　friend　of　mine　says　over　and　over　to　people　in　debt。
〃If　you　find　you　have　dug　yourself　into　a　hole。。。　stop　digging。〃
As　a　child；　my　dad　often　told　us　that　the　Japanese　were　aware　of　three　powers；　〃The　power　of　the　sword；　the　jewel　and　the　mirror。〃
The　sword　symbolizes　the　power　of　weapons。　America　has　spent　trillions　of　dollars　on　weapons　and；　because　of　this；　is　the　supreme　military　presence　in　the　world。
The　jewel　symbolizes　the　power　of　money。　There　is　some　degree　of　truth　to　the　saying；　〃Remember　the　golden　rule。　He　who　has　the　gold　makes　the　rules。〃
The　mirror　symbolizes　the　power　of　self…knowledge。　This　self…knowledge；　according　to　Japanese　legend；　was　the　most　treasured　of　the　three。
The　poor　and　middle　class　all　loo　often　allow　the　power　of　money　to　control　them。　By　simply　getting　up　and　working　harder；　failing　to　ask　themselves　if　what　they　do　makes　sense；　they　shoot　themselves　in　the　foot　as　they　leave　for　work　every　morning。　By　not　fully　understanding　nioney；　the　vast　majority　of　people　allow　the　awesome　power　of　money　to　control　them。　The　power　of　money　is　used　against　them。
If　they　used　the　power　of　the　mirror；　they　would　have　asked　themselves；　　〃Does　this　make　sense？〃　All　too　often；　instead　of　trusting　their　inner　wisdom；　that　genius　inside　of　them；　most　people　go　along　with　the　crowd。　They　do　things　because　everybody　else　does　it。　They　　conform　rather　than　question。　　Often；　they　mindlessly　repeat　what　they　have　been　told。　Ideas　such　as　〃diversify〃　or　〃your　home　is　an　asset。〃　〃Your　home　is　your　biggest　investment。〃　　〃You　get　a　tax　break　for　going　into　greater　debt。〃　　〃Get　a　safe　job。〃　〃Don't　make　mistakes。〃　　〃Don't　take　risks。〃
It　is　said　that　the　fear　of　public　speaking　is　a　fear　greater　than　death　for　most　people。　According　to　psychiatrists；　the　fear　of　public　speaking　is　caused　by　the　fear　of　ostracism；　the　fear　of　standing　out；　the　fear　of　criticism；　the　fear　of　ridicule；　the　fear　of　being　an　outcast。　The　fear　of　being　different　prevents　most　people　from　seeking　new　ways　to　solve　their　problems。
That　is　why　my　educated　dad　said　the　Japanese　valued　the　power　of　the　mirror　the　most；　for　it　is　only　when　we　as　humans　look　into　the　mirror　do　we　find　truth。　And　the　main　reason　that　most　people　say　〃Play　it　safe1'　is　out　of　fear。　That　goes　for　anything；　be　it　sports；　relationships；　career；　money。
It　is　that　same　fear；　the　fear　of　ostracism　that　causes　people　to　conform　and　not　question　monly　accepted　opinions　or　popular　trends。　　〃Your　home　is　an　asset。〃　〃Get　a　bill　consolidation　loan　and　get　out　of　debt。〃　　〃Work　harder。〃　　〃It's　a　promotion。〃　〃Someday　I'll　be　a　vice　president。〃　〃Save　money。〃　〃When　！　get　a　raise；　I'll　buy　us　a　bigger　house。〃　　〃Mutual　funds　are　safe。〃　〃Tickle　Me　Elmo　dolls　are　out　of　stock；　but　I　just　happen　to　have　one　in　back　that　another　customer　has　not　e　by　for　yet。〃
Many　great　financial　problems　are　caused　by　going　along　with　the　crowd　and　trying　to　keep　up　with　the　Joneses。　　Occasionally；　we　all　need　to　look　in　the　mirror　and　be　true　to　our　inner　wisdom　rather　than　our　fears。
By　the　time　Mike　and　I　were　16　years　old；　we　began　to　have　problems　in　school。　We　were　not　bad　kids。　We　just　began　to　separate　from　the　crowd。　We　worked　for　Mike's　dad　after　school　and　on　the　weekends。　　Mike　and　I　often　spent　hours　after　work　just　sitting　at　a　table　with　his　dad　while　he　held　meetings　with　his　bankers；　attorneys；　accountants；　brokers；　investors；　managers　and　employees。　Here　was　a　man　who　had　left　school　at　the　age　of　13；　now　directing；　instructing；　ordering　and　asking　questions　of　educated　people。　They　came　at　his　beck　and　call；　and　cringed　when　he　did　not　approve　of　them。
Here　was　a　man　who　had　not　gone　along　with　the　crowd。　　　He　was　a　man　who　did　his　own　thinking　and　detested　the　words；　〃We　have　to　do　it　this　way　because　that's　the　way　everyone　else　does　it。〃　He　also　hated　the　word　〃can't。〃　If　you　wanted　him　to　do　something；　just　say；　〃I　don't　think
you　can　do　it。〃
Mike　and　I　learned　more　sitting　at　his　meetings　than　we　did　in　all　our　years　of　school；　college　included。　Mike's　dad　was　not　school　educated；　but　he　was　financially　educated　and　successful　as　a　result。　　He　use　to　tell　us　over　and　over　again。　　〃An　intelligent　person　hires　people　who　are　more　intelligent　than　they　are。〃　So　Mike　and　I　had　the　benefit　of　spending　hours　listening　to　and；　in　the　process；　learning　From
intelligent　people。
But　because　of　this；　both　Mike　and　I　just　could　not　go　along　with　the　standard　dogma　that　our　teachers　preached；　And　that　caused　the　problems。　Whenever　the　teacher　said；　〃If　you　don't　get　good　grades；　you　won't　do　well　in　the　real　world；〃　Mike　and　I　just　raised　our　eyebrows。　When　we　were　told　to　follow　set　procedures　and　not　deviate　from　the　rules；　we　could　see　how　this　schooling　process　actually　discouraged　creativity。　We　started　to　understand　why　our　rich　dad　told　us　that　schools　were　designed　to　produce　good　employees　instead　of　employers。
Occasionally　Mike　or　I　would　ask　our　teachers　how　what　we　studied　was　applicable；　or　we　asked　why　we　never　studied　money　and　how　it　worked。　To　the　later　question；　we　often　got　the　answer　that　money　was　not　important；　that　if　we　excelled　in　our　education；　the　money　would　follow。
The　more　we　knew　about　the　power　of　money；　the　more　distant　we　grew　from　the　teachers　and　our　classmates。
My　highly　educated　dad　never　pressured　me　about　my　grades。　I　often　wondered　why。　　But　we　did　begin　to　argue　about　money。　By　the　time　I　was　16；　I　probably　had　a　far　better　foundation　with　money　than　both　my　mom　and　dad。　　I　could　keep　books；　I　listened　to　tax　accountants；　corporate　attorneys；　bankers；　real　estate　brokers；　investors　and　so　forth。　　My　dad　talked　to　teachers。
One　day；　my　dad　was　telling　me　why　our　home　was　his　greatest　investment。　A　not…too…pleasant　argument　took　place　when　I　showed　him　why　I　thought　a　house　was　not　a　good　investment。
The　following　diagram　illustrates　the　difference　in　perception　between　my　rich　dad　and　my　poor　dad　when　it　came　to　their　homes。　One　dad　thought　his　house　was　an　asset；　and　the　other　dad　thought　it　was　a　liability。
I　remember　when　I　drew　a　diagram　for　my　dad　showing　him　the　direction　of　cash　flow。　　I　also　showed　him　the　ancillary　expenses　that　went　along　with　owning　the　home。　A　bigger　home　meant　bigger　expenses；　and　the　cash　flow　kept　going　out　through　the　expense　column。
Today；　I　am　still　challenged　on　the　idea　of　a　house　not　being　an　asset。　And　1　know　that　for　many　people；　it　is　their　dream　as　well　as　their　largest　investment。　And　owning　your　own　home　is　better　than　nothing。　I　simply　offer　an　alternate　way　of　looking　at　this　popular　dogma。　If　my　wife　and　I　were　to　buy　a　bigger；　more　flashy　house　we　realize　it　would　not　be　an　asset；　it　would　be　a　liability；　since　it　would　take　money　out　of
our　pocket。
So　here　is　the　argument　I　put　forth。　I　really　do　not　expect　most　people　to　agree　with　it　because　a　nice　home　is　an　emotional　thing。　　And　when　it　es　to　money；　high　emotions　tend　to　lower　financial　intelligence。　　1　know　from　personal　experience　that　money　has　a　way　of　making　every　decision　emotional。
1。　When　it　es　to　houses；　I　point　out　that　most　people　work　all　their　lives　paying　for　a　home　they　never　own。　　In　other　words；　most　people　buy　a　new　house　every　so　many　years；　each　time　incurring　a　new　30…year　loan　to　pay　off　the　previous　one。
2。　Even　though　people　receive　a　tax　deduction　for　interest　on　mortgage　payments；　they　pay　for　all　their　other　expenses　with　after…tax　dollars。　Even　after　they　pay　off　their　mortgage。
3。　Property　taxes。　My　wife's　parents　were　shocked　when　the　property　taxes　on　their　home　went　to　1；000　a　month。　This　was　after　they　had　retired；　so　the　increase　put　a　strain　on　their　retirement　budget；　and　they　felt　forced　to　move。
4　Houses　do　not　always　go　up　in　value。　　In　1997；　I　still　have　friends　who　owe　a　million　dollars　for　a　home　that　will　today　sell　for　only　700；000。
5。　The　greatest　losses　of　all　are　those　from　missed　opportunities。　　If　all　your　money　is　tied　up　in　your　house；　you　may　be　forced　to　work　harder　because　your　money　continues　blowing　out　of　the　expense　column；　instead　of　adding　to　the　asset　column；　the　classic　middle　class　cash　flow　pattern。　If　a　young　couple　would　put　more　money　into　their　asset　column　early　on；　their　later　years　would　get　easier；　especially　as　they　prepared　to　send　their　children　to　college。　Their　assets　would　have　grown　and　would　be　available　to　help　cover　expenses。　All　too　often；　a　house　only　serves　as　a　vehicle　for　incurring　a　home…equity　loan　to　pay　for　mounting　expenses。　In　summary；　the　end　result　in　making　a　decision　to　own　a　house　that　is　too　expensive　in　lieu　o